Justbeingnellie http://justbeingnellie.com Thu, 02 Sep 2010 03:45:48 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 My Open E-mail Response To Love http://justbeingnellie.com/?p=398 http://justbeingnellie.com/?p=398#comments Thu, 02 Sep 2010 03:38:27 +0000 nellie http://justbeingnellie.com/?p=398 Some one wrote me an email regarding my love life and I replied I am working on me and etc. Well I received a response back from the person. After reading what they wrote by using analogies refercing job interviews and resumes to love, like its a job hunt. I decided to just nip it in the bud before it got too depp and decided to explain my reasoning, my thought behind it and how I see the outcome. You can weigh in if you agree or disagree. I am good with critical comments and I like different opinions but don’t get me wrong I like people to agree sometimes lol Check my response out below.

Uh relationships……my point of view is I am NOT ready for love. Love
isn’t ready for me. This time I truly understand the value of being 100%
complete; mentally, physically and emotionally in life. If I am not happy
and content I will only attract the same thing in return and it will only
lead to a mess. When you finally grasp what you put out is what you attract
only then can you learn to progress and reach the pinnacle of happiness. I
know once I get my life together GOD will let that man come into my life,
be it another year, two, five, ten and so forth. However long it takes I
want/need to be sure of myself and my place here on Earth before I drag
anyone into my life and I want that person to show a reflection of the same
from their life. I refuse to be around someone who whines, complains,
un-happy, bitter with life, not ambitious and etc. I need to make sure I am
not projecting the same negative attributes I don’t want coming into my
life. Again GOD knows me the best, before I say it, think it and live it he
has painted it already. No ones knows me better then GOD, the same for
yourself.

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I refuse to settle for less, I refuse to let myself hold myself behind and
I refuse to jump into something when I am not together myself. I cannot
expect much from you if I doubt myself and my worth. Just doesn’t make
sense. I understand your anology with relationship interviews, resumes and
so forth; however, I shouldn’t have to go against so many people to gain a
spot in someone’s heart. If its meant to be GOD will place that person
there and it shouldn’t have to be a struggle. Its only as bad as your mind
lets it become, if your always worrying about “is this person gonna call
me, he/she is probably not going to call me etc…” that person probably
isn’t. Anyway’s basically I am not ready for love, I like single hood and
when the time comes and when I am ready I know that man will be too.

So what do you think? Comment please and this time I PROMISE I will respond SORRY for this crazy mess. My life is bleeding representation of this site literally LOL!

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